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Don't Roll the Dice

Caleb Breakey - Thursday, April 24, 2014
In relationships, some of us like testing the odds. We put ourselves in potentially damaging situations because we want to know whether or not we can handle them. But just like rolling the dice over and over, there's a high probability for failure.

Modesty Matters

Caleb Breakey - Thursday, April 24, 2014
Rules are not the centerpiece of modesty. Necklines and skirt lengths for girls and shirts on or off for guys isn't the big deal. The main issue of modesty is exactly what we've been talking about all along: giving what your other needs most instead of taking what you want now.

Great Good and Great Evil

Caleb Breakey - Friday, April 18, 2014
I knew Brittney loved me—she'd filled dozens of journals about me!—but I always yearned to hear it again: that she loved me, loved me, loved me. Part of this yearning was tied to my own insecurity, for sure. But somewhere deep in my heart, it seems I also wanted her to love me more than she loved God. (Not that i ever thought that. It's just how I see my behavior in retrospect.) Instead of using my words to lift her eyes to God, I used them to lower her eyes to me.

Boundaries Don't Work

Caleb Breakey - Monday, April 14, 2014
If you want to honor God in your relationship, you need something far more powerful than boundaries. The fact is, boundaries are like those pleasant exchanges you have when you run into someone you haven't seen in a while and say something like, "We should get together sometime." You might like the idea, but you probably won't put much effort into making it happen.

Sex and the Slope

Caleb Breakey - Wednesday, April 09, 2014
Brittney and I had grown so emotionally attached that it wouldn't take much to push us all the way. In other words, if we kept growing closer it would be very difficult to avoid sex before marriage. What is your emotional and physical status with your other right now?

BEWARE: This Person Will Destroy Your Relationship

Caleb Breakey - Tuesday, March 04, 2014
Even if you are like a signpost always pointing to Jesus, you are still the greatest threat to your relationship. That's the mindset you must have if you want to give your other what he or she needs most (instead of taking what you want now: sexual intimacy).

15 Questions to Crush Relationship Hypocrisy

Caleb Breakey - Wednesday, February 26, 2014
To crush hypocrisy, you must stop judging your partner’s past. Stop just saying whatever you think he or she wants to hear. Stop trying to seduce, get physical with, or toy with the other’s emotions. Stop rushing the relationship. Stop trying to appear flawless. Stop lusting after them, fantasizing about them, or indulging yourself in pornography.

5 Key Ways You Can Fly, Not Fall

Caleb Breakey - Wednesday, February 12, 2014
This is the Golden Rule of Dating: give your other what’s needed most before taking what you want now. Or, giving > taking. That’s it. Nothing fancy. Just give instead of take.

“Caleb’s passion for storytelling reminds me of a comet: rarely seen, white-hot, and a bit dangerous.”


Kevin Kaiser, Writer and Brand Strategist for Ted Dekker

In this beautiful book, Caleb gets real about all the reasons why we should love the Church—and what that actually implies about how we do life in the body of Christ.


Jefferson Bethke, Author of Jesus > Religion

Caleb’s heart for people and his passion for Jesus are clearly evident.


Aaron Friesen, Dean of Student Services, New Hope Christian College

Before you leave your church, before you spread rumors about your church, and before you abandon the church altogether, read Called to Stay.


Kyle Idleman, Author of Not a Fan and Gods at War

Caleb has a presence about him that exudes enthusiasm, passion, and a deep love for Jesus and the craft of writing.


Linda Gilden, CLASS Conference Director

This yellow book showcases a life-changing and God-glorifying adventure waiting for you in your own backyard.


Alex and Brett Harris, Authors of Do Hard Things and founders of

Caleb connects well with the audience, communicates clearly, and he is passionate about writing.


Tim Shoemaker, Author and Speaker

A rare book that is biblical, strategic, timely, well written and persuasive all at the same time.


Randy Alcorn, Author of Heaven and Safely Home

An incredible addition to our teaching faculty. His enthusiasm was contagious and we received great comments about his workshop.


Gerry Wakeland, Class Seminars President and CEO

Caleb Breakey challenges readers to think about our role in the church and how to respond to the changing landscape of culture within the church today.


Margaret Feinberg, Author of Wonderstruck

Caleb Breakey is a force of nature. He's an irresistible combination of youthful passion, practical wisdom, and thoughtful maturity.


Kim Aldrich, Class Attendee

Called to Stay is an important invitation to bloom where you’re planted in the body of Christ.


Mary DeMuth, Author of The Wall Around Your Heart

A biblical mandate mixed with a masterful appeal, Called To Stay recruits believers into a special-forces unit called Infiltrators. I was compelled to enlist. You will be too.


Wayne Cordeiro, New Hope Christian Fellowship

Caleb Breakey does a great job of advocating high standards and intentionality without slipping into the ditch of legalism


Brett Harris, Author of Do Hard Things